I recently just wrote a blog similar to this one at my other site. You guys can know it, no one else in my life does, you will see why very soon. http://www.myfuckedlife.exposed If you want to learn more about me and my life outside of swinging. Back to the point of the blog!!!!! Yes! You never forget your first, like your first kiss, first car, first sexual partner, etc. Well, this night was the first time we did something at the club sexually. We had been to the club like two weeks prior to this, we mingled with few people, and that night I reached out to a few of them. Most got back to me but this one couple Tom & Angel took a few days to get back to us.
I am usually the one who does all the communications in person and online as Xander is really shy. So Tom and I started talking. Asking things like limits, no nos, expectations, and little about them. We are in this for friends as well as more. There are some couples who do not want to talk outside the club. That is fine just not us.
